Sunday, December 21, 2008

Divine Bonds

DIVINE BONDS

Destiny without pre-intimation has often beautiful offerings for you. The major decisions of our life for which we worry all our have already been taken ‘Up’. Leaving it to the Almighty and accepting with all reverence what offers we get from the heaven is the simple thing we are here for.

In this way we can shape good life for us, in a simple and satisfied manner. This was what I felt when in a pretty short time I approved entering into lifetime marital relationship with someone “unknown” to me only to realise later that my approval was the best thing I ever did in my life. I understood that perhaps we misinterpreted things when we thought that human relationships and personal bonds are created, nurtured and blossomed by us. Call it the plans of the Almighty for us or destiny, we cannot march towards a relationship unless He wishes, may it be a relationship or choice or birth. It is not just like that we take birth in particular family has surely some preconceived significance. Most, human relationships in this world are predestined, preplanned. People coming in touch with us in the form of friends, Colleagues, Acquaintances and even a neighbour are God’s selection for us. We all are tied with eternal bonds. Tied to give and receive love, share grief and happiness to help each other, to experience qualities of each other and to live in each other’s personal aura. To matter in each other’s lives. When we enter a relationship we may feel we have exercised our choice and picked up the best but it is He who has already done it for you.
As a physician, I feel I am predestined to serve the particular people coming to me. Duty, service, birth, love, kindness, sympathy, amity anything can bind two individuals but ultimately it is the divine providence that operates and engages us. If we consider the most important knot in every one’s life it is the marital knot. I feel isn’t simply on either side to exchange love. We often engage in discussion on whether love marriage was good or arranged marriage was better. And never are we in a position to draw any conclusion. We cannot. For such serious relationship aren’t human something, which are already registered with the ‘registrar of the heaven’. We can just offer the ‘stamp of the heaven’. We can just offer the ‘stamp duty’ and complete official for malities relating to the divine decision. If we wanted to became the part of his planning commission up there, of His deciding brigade all you could do is to keep doing worthwhile things in life, keep giving love to others and you would surely get back in majestic proportions whatever you have given to others.
In life you don’t really get what you desire but rather you deserve. Though our good thoughts and right actions we can become more deserving. We must respect every bond we share as divine bond which God expects us to respect and enjoy. I feel, when the Lord has blessed us with so many beautiful bonds, it is our duty to preserve them with love, honesty, and devotion, for a really satisfied life.

1 comments:

Unknown said...

very beautiful. it's true we never do anything, it is the divine power which is working out every aspect of our lives. it is only our ego which makes us think we r controlling everything :)

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